Extinguish evil with good
We are exposed to many situations and evils that disturb us and make us angry and vengeful people. We have gone through problems that ended in major disagreements that cannot be resolved or forgotten, and all of them are due to bad planning on our part. Evil has been created since it was created, until the world ends. It is extinguished by evil just as fire is not extinguished by fire. When God mentioned family problems between a husband and his wife, He warned them that the rule of their family and the rule of his family should be combined, and the intention should be to reconcile, and a solution that ended in divorce must end calmly and wisely. So what if they sent a reckless man who does not understand anything about life or his religion? Also to judge between spouses? The result will be known, and for this matter, if we want to reform a family that is about to fall apart, let us send the wisest man among us and the one who has the most understanding of life to determine what is best for them and bring their hearts together, especially if the couple has young children, and mothers do not interfere in their daughters’ lives except in reconciliation, because I have seen many women giving advice to their daughters. She destroys her house more than she builds it, and this is the nature of a woman, and we rarely find a woman who calms down her daughter and guides her to obey her husband and be patient with what happened to him and his family.
From the book Life Skills by Ibrahim Al-Shamlan